That Friend

Doesn't everybody have that one friend, that no matter what they say, u feel like a retard just said it? Well, shit I do lol.

So today she asked me if I know what dance music is, like come on who doesn't know what dance music is?! (Well I don't lol, not really). So here's how the convo went down:

Me: Not really.
Her: You serious? (I just knew that she felt like she was the shit cuz she knew something I didn't)
Me: I can only think of techno sounding 80's music when I think of dance music. (Like serious, who the fuck cares?!)
Her: lol. 80s music is 80s music, thats just what they played then and techno's techno music, no words just a beat. (Like duh!) Dance music has words, its pretty much music u can dance to (really? I didn't know that)

So anyway she proceeded to name a bunch of dance music artists and songs and I'm like well damn I dont really pay attention to music like that, if its good and has a good beat imma dance. Then eventually it lead to me and my boyfriend and some how turned into us not dancing at all. Like wtf?!

But anyway I just don't get it. Idk how you can be friends with someone then one just realize that hey maybe they aren't that bright. Cuz shit having to repeat urself over and over is a drag. Having to hear stupidness is a drag, but hey she's that friend so u put up with it cuz u hope one day she won't be so aarrrgg!!

Baby daddy

So just now I seen not one but TWO men with strollers. The reason I'm blogging about this is because they were both black men. They weren't older men, maybe early to late 20's. So it was surprising. Isn't that some sad shit. But I'm guessing things are change. All those boys with no fathers out there decided to be real fathers to their kids. So I'm glad I saw that shit. Cuz usually I'll see a mother with a kid and a stroller all by herself.

Stupidness I've seen smh

so lately what I've been doing is takin pictures of the stupid shit I've
been seeing. So the first one, is something I've seen a lot of. Its the
new trend of "urban" teen boys. They wear these tight pants, but under
the asses. So when their shirt is up you see their boxers. This looks
disgusting. I don't see why boys and even some "men" would want to walk
around presenting their asses to the world. Also this whole under the
ass pants started in prison. So it really makes no sense that a prison
trend switched over to "popular" culture. Anyway that's all imma say
about that.

So, the next two pictures, I took at a job fair. The first one, the lady
whose is slightly older is wearing a velour sweater, some black slacks I
think and of course sneakers!! Not even black ones, but obvious white
ones as you can see. Smh, I wouldn't hire her.
The next one, I don't know if you can see it, but the girl has jean
short shorts! Along with it, she's wearing a white button down and black
heels. Like where are you going looking like that? She definately
wouldn't get hired by me, that is unless I ran a club, bar or strip
joint.

So here's a word of advice. Men: don't wear pants under your ass. Also a
belt is suppose to hold your pants up, not hold them under your ass. So
don't walk round presenting your ass, unless you trying to get fucked
lol. WOMEN, don't find this attractive at all, maybe them hood shorties
do but no woman would be caught dead with you looking like that. What I
would suggest for you men is some nice relaxed jeans, worn just under
your waist with a belt. Please make sure they aren't too tight or too
baggy because both aren't cute. Then along with that try maybe a button
down with or without a vest or even a lil polo will do.

Now women: I know yall all want to look cute or comfortable, but there
is always a time and place for everything. You shouldn't be wearing what
you would wear for a jog or to the club to a job fair. Its not
professional. I am always a supporter of being comfortable, but come on!
White sneakers?! Get some cute comfortable flats, slacks and button
down. Shit I have a staple outfit for job fairs and interviews. so if
you're trying to get hired, never forget that first impressions matter,
so make a good one and u can't do that when your ass is hanging out of
your shorts.

This is just sick

Being a psychology major, I've heard of some sick shit in the past. But this seriously takes the cake:


I originally saw this on mediatakeout.com they didn't have the video up there just the basic facts. So then I googled it. I still can't believe. The lil girl was 8 days old!!! Come on. She was probably like 7 or 8lbs. I still can't believe this and to think that there are plenty other cases out there like this. I can't imagine what the mother is going through or what kind of issues the baby is going to have because of this, besides the already fractured skull she currently has. At 8 days old, she isn't going to remember that shit. How do you tell a child that they were raped by their father when they were 8 days old? SMH!! This is why I wanna get involved in Child Abuse, lol I know I ain't phrase it right. But it is an issue that I am very animated about and think that needs more attention.

Advice for parents: Talk to your kids. Start early, let them know that certain touching isn't appropriate, etc. Also make sure that they know not to allow anybody to touch them sexually. This is because most of the time, as the video mention, it is done by somebody they know. Child sexual abuse rgeatly affects children, regardless of the age. It also leads to other issues later on in life such as being raped as an adult, becoming a victim of child trafficking or less physical issues such as depression, low self-esteem, etc. So parents please be watchful and also don't touch your damn kids!! That shit is disgusting and if you're one of those pedophiles, I hope your child grows up and kills you.

Tiny waist & big butt

So I was on www.mediatakeout.com, its one of those sites that when you have nothing else to do you go there. So I was just reading the random stuff they got on there and then near the bottom I see one that says real or not. So in it they had some girl's like myspace pic and she all tiny on the top and big at her hips, so they're like she's gonna steal Angel Lola Luv's crown. Mine you I have no clue who Angel Lola Luv is; so I googled her.So after my internet stalking and finding out who she was, I decided to write this blog.
Sometimes I do wonder if these chick's butts are fake, but then in actuality there are women out there that look like that. But after awhile and after years it doesnt look so nice. Yea it might look nice when the chick wears 120 but not when she's like 170lbs. But anyway, lets get to the point of the blog. If its fake or not, thats how their making their money. So I guess if you want to grow up to be a "model" like Angel, then sure get some butt implants, titty implants, lipo all that cuz bitch your appearance is gonna be the sole thing you have to worry about.
With most jobs you need skills, or you know something to offer so that way they'll need you. I always wanted to look "perfect" like celebrities and tv chicks, but shit when you think about it if they didn't look "perfect", they would be out of a job. But what I really dont get is wtf is up with this obsession with tiny waists and big butts? Shit this obsession has even gotten to me lol. Cuz I was watching and look at Angel's pictures and videos and Im like damn that chicks butt is huge! But like why are men so attracted to that? Shit like back in slavery times, they would put big butts on display at museums so ppl could stare at them. Now you have all these chicks with big asses showing them off to make money. Its like in a way black men or men in general have internalized that whole slave master mentality of big butts being exotic. But shit when you look at most minority(black & brown) families theres big butts everywhere. So why is it still seen as a must have?
This whole big butt phenomenon is killing me, esp since I suffer from noassatall (lmao); so shit sometimes I do think about removing the fat from my like stomache and putting it on my ass. Not only cuz my backside isn't as attractive as it should be, esp considering I'm fat (lol) but also cuz sometimes my butt be hurting afta like sitting for too long or like if I bump something and it hits my ass. Shit my ass needs more cushioning!! But nah seriously I would love a bigger behind but I couldn't bear dealing with the whole is it real or is it fake. I'd rather just get a new body naturally and by praying to God for it to just show up one day you know lol.
Anyway so I guess thats it, leave your comments por favor (please in english :-P)

The benefits of unemployment

So as a recent college graduate; I've been having trouble getting a job right away. You would think that as soon as you receive your degree you would get a job, but its not so easy. This is how and why I am not claiming unemployment. Can you believe I got the idea to do this from my younger sister? Smh. I've never felt the need to file for unemployment because to me it was never that serious. Even though I would have to empty out my savings at times to pay off bills, but now that I've discovered unemployment I'm never going back. So while I remain unemployed, I do not remain complete broke.
Heres how it works: First google unemployment insurance in your state. If you reside or worked in NY here is the site: https://ui.labor.state.ny.us/UBC/home.do. Since I live in NY I am only familiar with how it works here, but the website for your states department of labor should have directions.
So you got to the above site on a weekday between 7am-7pm and entire your social security number. Then they will ask you a bunch of questions that you have to answer, all of them pretty simple. Then 3 days later you'll receive an information packet in the mail. It'll let you know how much you'll receive per week, etc. You have to file every week and don't receive your first payment until your 3rd week of being unemployed. So if you're unemployed, file as soon as you're out of a job.
Trust me, I would be super broke if it weren't for unemployment :-D. So goodluck and let me know if you have any questions.

Basic Intro

So I've decided to jump on the bandwagon and start a blog. I was inspired by my friend Jenn's blog (http://girlshesgottahaveit.blogspot.com/).
As of yet I haven't decided on a direction for my blog. As yall can read from above, it'll just be random rants for now on.